Relations- Constant give-and-take

It takes courage to love someone: to accept the flaws and embrace the person.

Love is not about expecting an ideal or a perfect being. It is about being perfect with flawed. The la di dah is all bogus. What matters at the end of the day is the passion to be with your loved one and how you understand the highs and lows of the relation, no matter what.

We ought to accept our loved one gracefully.

Every relation in which we invest our time, heart and efforts are the ones which really need good reaping. Relations are not a one-time investment. It transcends more than that. Emulsification of our hard work always results in something good.. something progressive.. something constructive. Same applies to relations too.

A teacher-student relation for example cannot be a one-sided affair. When both the beings work toward the relation then only it gains rectitude.
Friendship cannot sustain on the efforts by a single person. Constant give-and-take is the mantra.
The sanctity is to be respected whole-heartedly.

Respect and trust keeps a bond going strong. Here, solipsism takes a back seat. It is not a ‘I-me-myself’ world, it is a ‘WE’ world where each one of us matter.

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